Hey. I want to give my vBulletin forum the look of my site. I know this can be done but Google isn't being my friend at the moment so does anyone know a tutorial that actually works? Thanks in advance.
Trial and error? Learn CSS and HTML, and figure it out yourself. Or find a theme that's similar enough and modify it.
There's no quick and easy way to use a WP theme in vBulletin. Every instance you see where a WP and vB look alike is an instance where somebody coded separate skins for each that were designed to look the same. And really, Tomi said it best, if you don't know HTML and CSS, start learning, because you won't be able to do that without extensive knowledge of both.