Cheating In Relationships

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    deftonesfan867

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    Just random, lol.

    Oh and having involved in such things there was never resentment.

    Like I said it HAS to be a strong relationship for it to be viable.
     
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    So you're still with your partner and you consider it a healthy relationship?
     
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    I'm not with the person I did that with because they died in car accident...
     
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    I'm sorry, man. I feel bad now.
     
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    You're fine, you didn't know.
     
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    I think douches and dicks are analoguous here.
     
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    Ok sorry to post back in here after a long time but I have a question to add to this thread.

    Does it make you a better person to admit to cheating and telling your partner that you have done wrong compared to just keeping it a secret?
     
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    I don't think it makes you a better person. I think it only relieves you of guilt. That's the only reason people tell. "I think you should know that..." is never really about them. It's about you not being able to bear the secret anymore or you want to tell them so you break up. If you love the person, you know they love you, and you won't cheat on them again, what's the point of telling them? Ignorance is bliss.

    But if you are in the process of cheating, it should definitely be talked about because you're unhappy being in that relationship. Why stay?
     
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    i think in your teenage years singleness is then best thing ever, the reason why because at the end of the day the person you are with will just "try to take the best of you"
     
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    Been cheated on by my "first love." Was depressed for several months. Got over it and entered another BAD relationship lol. It is what it is. At least I learned what type of person she was before things got MORE serious then they were before.
     

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