Got Something You Want To Let Out Part 2

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  1. Will

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    I wouldn't. But then again, if he sees you added her and gets defensive about it ("Why'd you add her? You don't even know her," etc.), then you might have a case against him.

    But keep it positive for now. Like you said, it's most likely nothing. But it never hurts to be sure.
     
  2. Chris.

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    *sigh*

    That was probably one of the hardest things I've ever had to do in my life.
     
  3. esaul17

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    Hey, I went through something similar where an ex gf of mine had left a CD with Corel Draw on it at my house hoping I'd install it. I had looked through it a bit to see what music she had on it and stuff and ended up finding some vids of her fooling around with her ex boyfriend. I got quite upset, and she got upset at me for looking through her things. I think you should tell them though- would just eat away otherwise. If you are afraid to tell people things for fear of a relationship falling apart, then it has already crumbled in my opinion.
     
  4. Gitsnik

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    Three years :)
     
  5. Penny

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    Congrats Thomas. :)

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    I have a very important exam tomorrow and I can't study. I don't want to go to school tomorrow. :/
     
  6. Messy Marj

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    Yay! :sorcerer:
     
  7. TheRockChick

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    I have so much to let out, I just don't know where to start. I've never been the type of person who'd talk about their personal problems and whatnot with others, but it's starting to get really hard not to and I don't think I can keep it inside any longer. I honestly don't.
     
  8. Gitsnik

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    Thanks Penny and Marj :)
     
  9. Friskey™

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    Best is to just let it out. You keep it inside you and you're going to end up taking it out on something that you'll regret later. Trust me, I know.
     
  10. Luke

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    Mr. Kevin Friskey is right...it's best to let it out then bottle it up.
     
  11. TheRockChick

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    Yeah, I know it is.

    I'll see if I can find someone to talk to, or else I'll just spit it all out here. Thanks, though. Both of you.
     
  12. Friskey™

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    TBH, spit it out here. We'll listen. You have no idea how many times I've decided to just air out my differences here. Hell, I even let everybody know about a deep dark secret of mine, just because I trust everybody here. :)
     
  13. TheRockChick

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    So do I.

    *sigh* I don't know... I'll have to think it through. Thanks. :)
     
  14. Friskey™

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    No problem. Just know that we're here for you. Corny I know. :lol: :hug:
     
  15. TheRockChick

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    A bit, yeah. :lol:

    Just kidding, I know that. ^^

    Oh and one more thing, I don't like hugs. :lol: You're "new" here, so you probably don't know that yet.
     
  16. Arlene

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    Will and Ross: I brought it up because I found a few more things that made me more skeptical. (Good ole Derek talked me through it, good guy. :)) But anyway, after I saw a few more things I called him up (got his voicemail because he was getting his tattoo finished) and said "Listen, we have to talk about something." So he called me back and we talked about it, and he had perfectly plausible, believable reasons for everything. I don't really feel like saying everything, but it all made sense and connected somewhere. And I asked him if Sarah (the girl) knew that I existed, and he said "of course, I talk about you all the time" without missing a beat, and told me to email her, email matt, call them, whatever, and that they would tell me the same thing. So...if he was lying, he wouldn't tell me to go to the source, right? I did email her, though, so I'll see what she says.

    But thank you, guys. :hug:
     
  17. Will

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    I'm glad things are OK then. :)
     
  18. Daniel

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    Good to hear it's all okay dear. See, I told you not to overthink things on AIM. :lol: :hug:
     
  19. Arlene

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    Yeah...me too. I was panicking for a bit earlier. Thanks, both of you. I'm glad I have people like you to help me out with advice and whatnot. :hug:
     
  20. Gloomy Mushroom

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    You'll do fine hunny bunny :hug:
    Just keep your chin up and say to yourself: I can do this.
     
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