Got Something You Want To Let Out Part 2

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  1. Messy Marj

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    I have a problem.

    I have a friend, who's in real trouble. Basically, he wants to die. I've been telling him now for a very VERY long time not to give up, and I've been giving him alot of excuses why he shouldn't give up. But my excuses are running out and I really want to help him out, but I just can't anymore. There's nothing I can do about it and I know I shouldn't feel like this, but I'd feel guilty IF something might happen to him.

    What shall I do?
     
  2. Friskey™

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    One word: Intervention.
     
  3. Messy Marj

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    Yeah, but how? >_<
     
  4. Tomi

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    Aww, Marj. Step into my office. (read: get on msn, silly)
     
  5. Friskey™

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    Can you talk to his friends and family about it?
     
  6. Messy Marj

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    Nope. I only know him and he doesn't live around here, at all.


    Tomi: I would, but maybe I'll catch you tonight on msn, I'm cooking right now.
     
  7. Misfit Jay

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    Damn straight you did! :p
     
  8. Daniel

    Daniel Run for your life. LPA Super Member

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    I thought working with both of them today would be awesome :lol: .

    Yet strangely, it wasn't :mellow: .
     
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  9. Anya

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    I had my hopes really high for having my biological parents contact me on my 18th birthday, and yet they never did. (I'm adopted, so yeah lol. It's the law that I can't legally contact my biological parents until I'm 18.) I don't know why I was so excited about it, I mean I KNOW that the parents I have now raised me all my life and are the only people I would ever even consider calling Mom and Dad. It's just curiosity I suppose. I wanna know what they look like, why they put me up for adoption, if I have any brothers or sisters, etc.

    And I'm jealous of my brother Drew (who is adopted as well, but comes from another family), although I really shouldn't be because it's really not his fault, but his biological parents gave him a letter in the mail four years ago on the day of his 18th birthday consisting of a long written letter from his biological mother and pictures of her, including of a brother he has and a half-sister. Since that day, I've been awaiting to have the same thing happen to me, just knowing that I would maybe get to meet my parents someday! It felt so thrilling, to know about my background and just see their faces. It would've been so interesting, well at least I think so.

    But now I'm sad because I got my hopes up for nothing. It's been a week and a half practically, and still I have no letter, no nothing. I don't know.. I know I shouldn't let such a silly thing bother me much I suppose, but not many people I know of understand how this feels. I can't even describe it. I really want to meet them.

    I would go about contacting them myself, but my Mom is brutal when it comes to the whole 'adoption' subject and loves to pour the guilt on constantly if I ever have any thoughts or questions about my bio parents. I'm hoping if she asks if I want to talk to them (which she does tend to ask a lot), maybe I'll slip it in saying that I would like to meet them just so I can get my medical records from them.

    I dunno what to dooo.
     
  10. Minus

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    I kissed her today. =]
     
  11. John

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    i bet you won't sleep for days.
     
  12. Louis

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    I'm sick of it.

    I'm sick of talking to her and hearing about him. How did this fucking come about? All of a sudden they just become good friends again? All of a fucking sudden?

    I hate how she talks about him. I hate it. She talks about him as if he's the most amazing thing ever. Always.

    Why now? Why fucking now?

    I hate it. I hate her for it. I hate him for it. I hate everyone for it. I don't want to deal with this anymore. Why should I have to? Why do I have to have feelings for her when she has feelings for him?

    And why am I the one who's suffering alone in this now?
     
  13. The Doctor

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    I'm in love. She's just absolutely perfect to me.
     
  14. Rachel

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    Awww congrats! :hug:
     
  15. Pacey

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    Things to do/On my mind

    -Organise gig September 7
    -posters
    -emailing/calling mags/gig guides for interviews/editorials
    -Get PA system locked down
    - Organise Plague By Music gig October 6
    -Sponsors
    -The Rock radio- call monday to follow up proposal
    -Alt TV- same
    -Alcohol sponsor, ring to talk, send proposal
    If I dont get these, where does the money come from for marketing?
    -Get PA system locked down, lights and a sound/lighting technician.
    -Keep bands happy- Rider?

    -Managing band
    -in top 5 for local bands to play @ Taste Of Chaos, must win.
    -Making a video - location, where to?

    -School
    -Marketing assignment
    -Local Music Industry assignment
    -Work

    -Money

    Him.- Is he the reason i wanna move back home, 6 hours south, away from te excitement of the captial? But what if he was it. I think I left my heart in Hawkes Bay.

    I miss my family.

    I think my head might implode.
     
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  16. Harlz

    Harlz More Scared Of You Than You Are Of Me LPA Super Member

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    I hated not making any progress with her, it was driving me insane, and I was desperate for something, anything to change.
    Well, it has, it's got worse. She won't even talk on msn anymore, and even if I get within 20 metres of her at lunch, even if I'm talking to someone else and haven't even made the slightest movement towards her, first chance she gets, she grabs one of her girlfriends and walks off. Doesn't come back 'till I'm gone.
    I'm sick of this, its gone on too long. I'm scared that I love her....

    Schools crap.

    My Pa's moving away in a few weeks, selling the house where him and my Ma lived for 42 years. So many of my best memories are there, my memories of my Ma. Memories I NEVER want to lose. I miss her so much. If I could have one thing in this world, it would be a cure for cancer. Its cruel, and its victims haven't done anything to deserve it.
    If I could change one thing about the world, it'd be to screw love, money, whatever else, I know I can't have my Ma back. Just get rid of cancer, I can't stand hearing about it anymore.

    [/end whine]
     
  17. Messy Marj

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    I'm sorry.. :[

    :hug:
     
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  18. Harlz

    Harlz More Scared Of You Than You Are Of Me LPA Super Member

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    Hugs, hugs always help :)

    thanks :hug:
     
  19. Andrea

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    I am trying to keep my mouth shut about something but I don't know how much longer I can keep silent. zomgz.
     
  20. ...Lauren?

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    *sigh* I broke so many rules last year... ^_^
     
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