Anya - Enjoy life to its fullest, and make sure you make the most of everyday...feel proud of what you've accomplished and look ahead to the future. At some point, everyone comes to this stage in their life when they question themselves, but you have to learn how to deal with it...last year I was in a very similar situation, but as I've adopted a new outlook on life I've realized that you shouldn't "sweat the small stuff". As for the boyfriend/girlfriend, I wouldn't dwell on that very much. Keep meeting new people and try to appreciate each one...don't go around looking for that special someone...meeting new people and new personalities will give you new perspectives and maybe what you find appealing will really be different than you think! Anyways, when I saw your post I thought I might give my own $.02....and yeah, maverick is right...the LPA is always here to help!